Category: Faith & Grow

  • Guard Your Private Room: How God Prepares You Before Promotion

    Your ‘inner room’, your intimacy with Him, is the foundation for everything else.

    There’s a process God often takes His people through before He elevates them to their next assignment. It’s a season that combines preparation, discernment, and divine protection. Many people miss their moment of promotion because they underestimate the importance of what happens in the hidden place.

    Today, I want to talk about what God does behind the scenes before He brings you into public influence, and why protecting your “private room” is just as important as stepping into your “public platform.”

    1. Mercy Before Favour

    God’s heart is for mercy before favour. Before He blesses someone, He extends grace and compassion, even to those who are far from Him.

    Sometimes, God will put a burden in your heart to pray for others, even those from backgrounds or cultures different from your own. You may not understand why, but this intercession is part of His Kingdom agenda. Your prayers can become the very bridge that brings them to encounter God’s kindness.

    Romans 2:4  says “God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance.”

    2. Guard Your Inner Room

    In the Bible, the “inner room” or “secret place” represents intimacy with God, your private spiritual life that no one sees.

    God often enlarges this “room” before He expands your public influence. Why? Because your public platform will only be as stable as your private foundation. If your inner life is disordered, your outer life will eventually crumble.

    Protect this space. Be careful who you let in. Not everyone is meant to see your deepest walk with God. Some will honour it, others will misunderstand it.

    Matthew 6:6 says “When you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father…”

    3. Discernment Protects Destiny

    Not everything that looks ready is actually prepared by God. Some things are seasoned to look appealing but are still “raw” in the spirit, dangerous to partake of too soon.

    Discernment is your shield. It will protect you from people, opportunities, and situations that seem good on the surface but are not aligned with God’s timing or purity.

    Hebrews 5:14 says “But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.”

    4. Cross-Cultural Kingdom Work

    God’s Kingdom is a multi-coloured, multi-cultural family. He delights in bringing people from every background together under His covering.

    Sometimes, your role will be to help “clothe” someone in the identity of God’s family, to make the outsider feel like they belong at the celebration. This can happen through acts of kindness, mentorship, cultural exchange, or simply showing love without conditions.

    Isaiah 61:10 says “He has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness.”

    5. Favour and Fragrance

    When God promotes you, He also adorns you with His fragrance. This is the kind of favour that attracts hearts without you having to strive for attention.

    Just as a pleasant fragrance fills a room, God’s presence in your life will naturally draw people to Him through you. This is why preparation matters, so that when the door opens, you’re not just ready in skill, but in spirit.

    2 Corinthians 2:14-15 says  “…through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of Him everywhere.”

    If you’re in a season where God seems to be working more on your private life than your public one, don’t be discouraged. He is building capacity in your inner room so you can carry the weight of what’s coming next.

    Keep praying for others, mercy before favour.

    Guard your secret place fiercely.

    Sharpen your discernment.

    Embrace the beauty of cross-cultural Kingdom work.

    Let God clothe you in His fragrance before the platform comes.

    When God opens the next door, you won’t just walk in, you’ll walk in prepared, protected, and carrying His presence.

    With love and purpose,

    Harmonie 💖

  • Your Past Has Expired — You’ve Outgrown That Room

    There are moments in life when God lets us revisit the past, not to stay there, but to realize just how far we’ve come.

    Sometimes it happens in a conversation, a memory, or even a dream. Suddenly you’re back in an old environment. Maybe a room you used to sit in. A crowd you used to blend into. A system you once believed in. But this time, something feels… different.

    • You don’t quite fit anymore.
    • You don’t recognize the people.
    • You feel out of place — like a visitor in your own history.

    And that’s when God whispers:
    “This is not your room anymore. You’ve outgrown this place.”

    Old Rooms, New Revelations

    It’s wild how we can cling to old titles, old beliefs, old labels, simply because they feel familiar. But God is not in the business of keeping you in comfort zones. He’s in the business of transformation.

    You may have once needed that place. It may have even helped shape your foundation. But growth requires movement. And God loves you too much to let you shrink yourself just to keep others comfortable.

    “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!”
    – Isaiah 43:18–19 (NKJV)

    Letting Go Doesn’t Mean Disrespect

    Walking away from an old room doesn’t mean dishonor. It means obedience.

    You can love people and still leave places that no longer align with who God is calling you to be. You can honor your roots and still pursue your rise. Some rooms served a purpose for a season, but the season has changed — and so have you.

    A Prayer for When You Feel the Tug

    Lord, give me the courage to walk away from the past without guilt.
    Show me where You are now.
    Help me not to grieve expired places, but to step boldly into the “new thing” You are doing in my life.
    Remind me that growth is not betrayal, it’s obedience.
    In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Final Thought

    If you’ve been feeling stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming, this is your confirmation: It’s okay to move forward. You don’t belong in that old room anymore. Not because you’re better, but because you’re becoming.

    And trust me, what God has prepared for you ahead is far greater than what you’re leaving behind.

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