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Category: purpose

  • My Life in an Alternate Universe. The Quiet Power of “What If”

    “In another universe, I harvest instead of hustle, but even there, I STILL need God.”

    -E. H Abraham

    In an alternate universe, I wake up every morning to the sound of waves crashing against the cliffs outside my seaside cottage in Cape Town. The sun peeks through sheer white curtains as I stretch, barefoot, into a day that holds no chaos, no deadlines, only purpose and peace.

    In this universe, I’m not juggling a dozen roles. I’m not questioning if I’m doing enough or if I’m too much. Here, I am whole. I run a small wellness and writing retreat for women where every guest is reminded that healing is not a luxury, but a necessity.

    Instead of racing to meet the expectations of the world, I spend my mornings teaching journaling workshops under the olive trees and my afternoons sipping tea with women who have forgotten how to dream. Together, we write ourselves back to life.

    There is no pressure to perform, only permission to be.

    In this universe, I never doubted my voice. I never silenced my story. I published my first book at 19, not 39. I spoke on stages, not from a place of ambition, but from a place of sacred assignment.

    My children run barefoot in the garden, fluent in three languages, and utterly free. My partner is a man of prayer and poetry, a quiet storm who believes in miracles as much as I do.

    We are not rich, not by the world’s standards, but we live abundantly. There is music, there is laughter, there is deep rest. There is rhythm.

    I don’t hustle. I harvest.

    But even in this perfect parallel, I carry one thing from the world I came from, my faith. In every universe, I would still need God. I would still crave His whispers in the stillness. I would still fall apart and find Him in the pieces.

    Because maybe the beauty of this alternate world isn’t that it’s perfect, but that it reminds me what’s possible. What’s already inside me. What I can slowly build in this life, one sacred yes at a time.

    And you?

    What would your alternate universe look like?
    Would you change the world, or just finally change yours?

    Let yourself imagine. And then, perhaps, let yourself begin.

  • Guard Your Private Room: How God Prepares You Before Promotion

    Your ‘inner room’, your intimacy with Him, is the foundation for everything else.

    There’s a process God often takes His people through before He elevates them to their next assignment. It’s a season that combines preparation, discernment, and divine protection. Many people miss their moment of promotion because they underestimate the importance of what happens in the hidden place.

    Today, I want to talk about what God does behind the scenes before He brings you into public influence, and why protecting your “private room” is just as important as stepping into your “public platform.”

    1. Mercy Before Favour

    God’s heart is for mercy before favour. Before He blesses someone, He extends grace and compassion, even to those who are far from Him.

    Sometimes, God will put a burden in your heart to pray for others, even those from backgrounds or cultures different from your own. You may not understand why, but this intercession is part of His Kingdom agenda. Your prayers can become the very bridge that brings them to encounter God’s kindness.

    Romans 2:4  says “God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance.”

    2. Guard Your Inner Room

    In the Bible, the “inner room” or “secret place” represents intimacy with God, your private spiritual life that no one sees.

    God often enlarges this “room” before He expands your public influence. Why? Because your public platform will only be as stable as your private foundation. If your inner life is disordered, your outer life will eventually crumble.

    Protect this space. Be careful who you let in. Not everyone is meant to see your deepest walk with God. Some will honour it, others will misunderstand it.

    Matthew 6:6 says “When you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father…”

    3. Discernment Protects Destiny

    Not everything that looks ready is actually prepared by God. Some things are seasoned to look appealing but are still “raw” in the spirit, dangerous to partake of too soon.

    Discernment is your shield. It will protect you from people, opportunities, and situations that seem good on the surface but are not aligned with God’s timing or purity.

    Hebrews 5:14 says “But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.”

    4. Cross-Cultural Kingdom Work

    God’s Kingdom is a multi-coloured, multi-cultural family. He delights in bringing people from every background together under His covering.

    Sometimes, your role will be to help “clothe” someone in the identity of God’s family, to make the outsider feel like they belong at the celebration. This can happen through acts of kindness, mentorship, cultural exchange, or simply showing love without conditions.

    Isaiah 61:10 says “He has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness.”

    5. Favour and Fragrance

    When God promotes you, He also adorns you with His fragrance. This is the kind of favour that attracts hearts without you having to strive for attention.

    Just as a pleasant fragrance fills a room, God’s presence in your life will naturally draw people to Him through you. This is why preparation matters, so that when the door opens, you’re not just ready in skill, but in spirit.

    2 Corinthians 2:14-15 says  “…through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of Him everywhere.”

    If you’re in a season where God seems to be working more on your private life than your public one, don’t be discouraged. He is building capacity in your inner room so you can carry the weight of what’s coming next.

    Keep praying for others, mercy before favour.

    Guard your secret place fiercely.

    Sharpen your discernment.

    Embrace the beauty of cross-cultural Kingdom work.

    Let God clothe you in His fragrance before the platform comes.

    When God opens the next door, you won’t just walk in, you’ll walk in prepared, protected, and carrying His presence.

    With love and purpose,

    Harmonie 💖

  • Overcoming waves with resilience and grace.

    Are you navigating life’s unpredictable waves, seeking solace and strength? 🌊 Embracing God’s purpose can illuminate your path, bringing peace and guiding you daily. Trusting in God and nurturing your faith isn’t merely about facing adversity, it’s about overcoming it with resilience and grace. This isn’t a solitary journey. It’s a commitment to inner growth, a voyage towards lasting peace. Together, let’s explore how spiritual guidance can empower you to handle life’s hurdles with renewed faith and calm confidence. Need a little boost? 🌟 Check out these 5 scriptures to nurture your spiritual mindset.

    Embrace the Purpose 💫

    Understanding and embracing God’s purpose for your life is transformative. It’s your rock-solid foundation for tackling those inevitable challenges. Let’s dive into how aligning with God’s plan fortifies your faith and perseverance.

    Trust the Divine Blueprint

    Trust in God’s divine plan. It’s crucial for your spiritual growth. It means surrendering your desires and embracing the understanding that God’s wisdom surpasses our own. Trust opens you to divine guidance and protection, enabling you to face uncertainties with a heart full of confidence. He’s working for your ultimate good, always! 💪

    Sustaining this trust requires regular prayer and reflection. By consistently connecting with God, you’ll discover clarity and peace in His promises.

    Faith and Perseverance: Your Dynamic Duo

    Faith and perseverance are your steadfast companions on this journey. They help you remain committed to God’s purpose, even when life presents challenges. Faith empowers you with the strength to believe in God’s promises, fueling your hope and motivation. Meanwhile, perseverance puts your faith into action, keeping you on course when trials arise. Cultivate both to maintain your spiritual focus. 💖

    Finding Calm in Chaos

    Life can become quite chaotic, yet you can find tranquility amidst the storm through faith and spiritual guidance. Let’s explore practical, faith-based ways to rise above adversity.

    Daily Spiritual Guidance 🕊️

    Spiritual guidance offers practical support for daily life challenges. It shapes your understanding and response to life’s difficulties from a faith-based perspective. Regular Bible study provides wisdom and comfort, while prayer is your direct line to God’s wisdom and strength.

    Connecting with a faith community can be an incredible source of spiritual support. Sharing experiences adds perspective and provides much-needed camaraderie. Additionally, mindfulness and meditation on God’s Word keep you anchored in faith, even in tough times.

    Overcoming Adversity with Faith

    When adversity strikes, view it as an opportunity for spiritual growth. Faith is your unwavering ally, providing hope and strength. It reassures you that you are never alone—God is right there, guiding you through every trial. 💪

    Perceive challenges as opportunities for growth and spiritual development, not insurmountable barriers. By leaning on faith during your toughest times, you’ll emerge stronger in your spiritual journey.

    Building Inner Strength

    Building inner strength helps you maintain your faith and peace through life’s ups and downs. Let’s discuss finding peace during tough times and empowering your personal growth.

    Finding Peace in Life’s Storms

    Life’s storms can be overwhelming, but peace can be found by consistently engaging in spiritual practices. Regular prayer allows you to cast worries onto God and receive His peace. Meditation on scripture soothes your anxious mind, offering stability in His word. Practicing gratitude shifts focus from problems to blessings, fostering peace and contentment.

    Empowering Personal Growth and Faith 🌱

    Personal growth and faith development reinforce each other, building inner strength. Regular Bible study deepens your understanding, acts of service put faith into action, and spiritual mentors or small groups offer critical guidance. Embrace life’s challenges as opportunities for growth and resilience, strengthening both your faith and character. 🏆

    Embark on this empowering journey, and let His purpose guide you boldly. 🚀

    With love and purpose,

    Harmonie

  • When You Feel Stuck Mid-journey (Like That Escalator)

    When You Feel Stuck Mid-journey (Like That Escalator)

    “You’re not broken. You’re just being recalibrated by the One who never stops working behind the scenes.”

    -E. H Abraham

    I read a news story today that, honestly, most people would scroll right past.
    An escalator in a Nottingham shopping centre broke down and stopped mid-motion.

    No injuries. No drama. Just… stuck.
    People had to walk around it. Some huffed. Others shrugged.
    Maintenance was called. They fixed it. End of story.

    But for some reason, I couldn’t stop thinking about that escalator.

    Because I’ve felt like her.
    And maybe you have too.

    You were rising, in purpose, in motherhood, in calling, in business, in healing.
    You had momentum.
    But then, something shifted.

    You didn’t crash.
    You didn’t collapse.
    You just… stalled.

    And the world, much like that shopping centre, kept moving.
    People passed by. Life went on.
    But there you were, mid-step, mid-project, mid-promise, wondering, What happened to my flow?

    As women, especially women of faith, we carry so much.
    We climb with bags full of dreams, diapers, deadlines, devotionals, and silent prayers.
    So when we pause, when our rhythm breaks, we don’t always give ourselves permission to breathe.

    But God does.

    He doesn’t mock the pause.
    He enters it.

    Sometimes, He allows the “stuck” to become sacred.
    A moment to reset.
    To be reminded: You’re not broken. You’re being recalibrated.

    Even escalators need maintenance.
    And so do we, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically.

    If you feel like your life has paused mid-journey, hear this:
    God has not forgotten you.
    You are still called. Still chosen. Still rising.

    Let Him do the inner work. Let the Holy Spirit come in like divine maintenance.
    And when it’s time, you’ll move again, with fresh oil and restored strength.

    With love and grace

    Harmonie

  • The Mountain That Changes Everything

    Jesus and three disciple at The Mountain of Transfiguration

    Some moments in life leave you breathless.
    Moments where heaven feels near, and everything inside you knows… God is here.

    The Bible tells us about one of those moments.
    It’s called the Mountain of Transfiguration. Though it happened over 2,000 years ago, its meaning is just as powerful today.

    One day, Jesus invited three of His disciples, Peter, James, and John to follow Him up a high mountain.
    He didn’t tell them why. He didn’t give them a plan.
    He just said, “Come with Me.”

    Mountains in Scripture are not just landscapes. They are places of encounter.
    Think about Mount Sinai, where God gave the Ten Commandments.
    Mount Carmel, where God answered Elijah with fire.
    And now, this mountain, chosen for something extraordinary.

    When they reached the top, everything changed.
    The Bible says Jesus’ face shone like the sun.
    His clothes became dazzling white, purer than anything on earth could make them.

    Then, two figures appeared: Moses and Elijah.
    Moses represented God’s Law.
    Elijah represented the Prophets.
    And both stood with Jesus, because He is the fulfilment of everything God has ever promised.

    Luke’s Gospel tells us they spoke about Jesus’ upcoming death and resurrection.
    Even in the middle of this breathtaking display of glory, the focus was still on the mission, the cross that was coming.

    Peter, overwhelmed, blurted out, “Lord, it’s good for us to be here. Let’s build three shelters…”
    In other words, “Let’s stay here forever.”

    And honestly, we understand that.
    When you experience God’s presence in a powerful way, in prayer, in worship, in a breakthrough moment… you want to hold on to it.

    But here’s the truth: God doesn’t give us mountaintop moments so we can camp there forever.
    He gives them so we can be strengthened for the valleys ahead.

    The Father’s Voice

    Suddenly, a bright cloud covered them, and a voice came from the cloud saying:

    “This is My beloved Son. Listen to Him.”

    Not “look at Him.”
    Not “admire Him.”
    Listen to Him.

    It’s possible to be impressed by Jesus and still not follow what He says.
    The Father’s message was clear. Discipleship means listening and obeying.

    The disciples fell to the ground in fear.
    Then Jesus touched them and said, “Get up. Don’t be afraid.”
    When they looked up, Moses and Elijah were gone.

    Only Jesus remained.

    And that’s the point.
    In the end, it’s always about Him.
    Not the experience, not the moment, not the people around you…. just Jesus.

    What It Means for Us Today:

    The Mountain of Transfiguration isn’t just a story about glory, it’s a lesson for daily life.

    See Jesus as He truly is. He’s more than a teacher or miracle worker. He is the radiant Son of God.

    Listen to Him. His voice should be louder than fear, doubt, or the crowd.

    Carry the mountain into the valley. What you see in God’s presence is meant to fuel how you live when life gets ordinary or hard.

    Whether you feel like you’re on a mountaintop or in a deep valley today, the same Jesus who shone in glory is walking with you right now.

    Maybe God has given you a glimpse of His presence recently, in prayer, through His Word, in a worship moment or even in a dream.
    Don’t just admire it. Let it transform how you live.

    Because the God who met Peter, James, and John on that mountain…
    is the same God who wants to walk with you in your everyday life.

    With love and purpose,

    Harmonie

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  • When Strangers Support You More Than Family

    When Strangers Support You More Than Family

    There’s a quiet heartbreak that many content creators, entrepreneurs, and visionaries carry the pain of being unseen by the people closest to you.

    It’s something I recently experienced again with my blog.

    Every time I write, I pour in my heart, my time, my prayers. I write with women in mind, the ones who are seeking hope, direction, healing, or just a moment of peace with God. And yet, when I share these words with family, friends, people I’ve laughed with and prayed with, there’s often silence.

    No clicks. No reads. No reactions.


    Jetpack, the tracking tool I use, shows me the truth:
    It’s the strangers, the unknown faces on Facebook or random visitors from other countries who are actually reading my words.

    And sometimes that… hurts.

    Because deep down, we all hope that our loved ones will be our biggest supporters.
    But the truth is, sometimes they aren’t.

    It’s not about numbers. It’s not even about validation.
    It’s about the emotional ache of feeling overlooked by people who know your story, your sacrifices, your dreams.
    You think, “If they really cared… wouldn’t they at least click?”

    But here’s the uncomfortable truth I had to face:
    Familiarity can make people blind to your calling.

    They’ve seen you grow up. They’ve seen your flaws. So sometimes, they can’t reconcile the version of you they know with the version of you God is raising.

    💭Why Strangers Often See You First

    1. Strangers don’t carry bias.

    They don’t compare you to who you used to be. They meet you as you are today.

    2. God sometimes hides you on purpose.

    Not everyone is meant to see the early stages of your anointing. He reveals you to the ones who will receive you, not resist you.

    3. Your assignment isn’t always for your circle.

    Sometimes the people you’re called to impact are out there, not right here. And that’s okay. Jesus said a prophet is not without honour, except in their own hometown.

    💡My Decision: Releasing and Refocusing

    So I’ve decided:
    I’m no longer posting my blog on WhatsApp, hoping for support from people who may never engage.
    I’m shifting my energy to build real connections with the people who are showing up, the ones reading, commenting, subscribing, and being impacted.

    Not out of spite, but out of wisdom.
    Not from offense, but from clarity.

    🙏🏽A Word for You

    If you’re reading this and nodding through tears, I want to encourage you:

    Don’t stop.
    Don’t shrink.
    Don’t wait for applause from a room God never assigned to you.

    Keep writing.
    Keep building.
    Keep showing up for the strangers, because they might just become your strongest community.

    And one day, those same friends and family may come around. And if they do  welcome them with grace, but don’t let their timing dictate your movement.

    You’ve got something powerful inside you. Let God decide who sees it and when.

    You are seen.
    You are called.
    And your voice matters, even if they don’t click.

    With love,
    Harmonie Abraham


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